There's No Right Way to Be Something

Stop trying to be the perfect version of ONE thing.

One of the biggest reasons people don't show up completely is because they feel like part of them doesn't fit. I used to do it too. 

They hide the fact that they love a good TV binge, because they're spiritual. Spiritual people meditate, they don't binge watch reality tv.

They don't share their night out at the bar watching a band, because they drink green juice all day. Health conscious people don't go out drinking.

They feel like they can't rock the yoga pants and sometimes yesterday's makeup because they're making 6 figures & 6 figure earners are always put together.
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We have all these ideas of what certain people do. How they act. How they dress. And when we want people to see us as successful, spiritual, healthy, professional or whatever, we hide the parts of us that we believe contradict that thing.

When you hide parts of you, you miss out....
On yourself...
Connecting with others...
Doing things you love.

I'm a GINORMOUS mix of contradictions. I'm spiritual, clairaudient, love energy work & oracle cards. I also love TV, jeans, dive bars, tattoos & bloody marys. I'm a total ring junkie. I love coaching, massages, spa days, coloring my hair purple, heels, detox baths, football, yoga pants,  trees & mountains, and a ton of other things. That makes me ME.

You'll never see me working from a coffee shop(I don't drink coffee) but a bar is probable. I'll never have a Luis Vuitton purse, but I will rock some sexy heels(probably with jeans). I'll never be a vegetarian, but I will do cleanses & make my own smoothies(that occasionally might have some vodka in them). I'll never judge someone for what they love or what they don't(flip flops freak me out).

Your mix is what makes you unique. It's why you connect with some people & push away others. It's the reason you're so good at your thing.

What part of you have you been holding back?
STOP that shit right now!  

There's no right way to be something. Just be YOU. No Apologies.